Friday, October 30, 2009

HOW WE GOT HERE VOLUME 2

The Jupiter Road Church of Christ was a little, light-colored brick building with a high-pitched roof and a small porch and double wooden doors on the front. No steeple, these were the days when very few, if any Churches of Christ had steeples. I’m not sure for the reason, but I’ve always assumed it had something to do with the tower of Babble.


Behind the wooden double doors was a wooden rack that held comics about the dangers of sin, a water fountain, two bathrooms, three or four class rooms, a nursery (now usually known as cry rooms) and a small auditorium.


Brother Smith was the preacher. A stocky man who’s wife Bulla always wore a hat (my mother says for religious reasons) and made the best potluck dish in the history of potlucks. It was called tamale pie and it contained grits, meat and mexican spices. It should be mentioned that my sister and I have tried unsuccessfully for years to find the recipe.


Brother Smith was a traditional C.O.C. preacher. Meaning he went out of his way to let you know without a doubt that God was going to get you. Meaning God could not wait for you to step out of line so that the devil could have his turn with you.


Once, my Grandpa Tardiff (the former preacher) wanted to borrow a saw from Brother Smith. Brother Smith never loaned tools unattended. You were welcome to borrow, but he came with them. Grandpa handled this arrangement by telling Brother Smith that ever since Jesus, every preacher has thought he was a carpenter and every carpenter thought he was a preacher.


My first Christian lessons were taught in that building. When I was very young they just let us play with blocks while we sang songs about God, Jesus and the Bible. At the end of class the teacher would ask us what we had built with our blocks. Every time, without fail, my blocks would be in a random pattern on the table and I would always say that it was the Japanese army crossing the street. I’m not sure what that means, it’s just something that happened.


As I got older the lessons got more advanced. The good Samaritan, the loaves and the fishes, Sermon on the Mount, lame men walking, woman at the well, John 3:16, etc. As we got older, the lessons got more serious. Most were about the dangers of sin and how God was watching all the time.


They were good too. Everything timed just right. When you were at the age where you might help yourself to candy or a small toy at the King Saver they would talk about the Ten Commandments and really make a point of the “Thou shalt not steal” part. I should mention that this one always confused me because it was in the Old Testament which, at a pretty early age, I knew was written to the Jews. And we were definitely not Jewish, and don’t even get us started on the Catholics.


My childhood at Jupiter Road was pretty happy, especially if you don’t consider the fact that I spent most nights alone in my room shaking with fear and crying over the fact that I was most assuredly going to Hell. I’m not sure if you could call what I did praying so much as you could call it begging for my soul to be saved from the lakes of fire.


At the age of nine I decided I had better do something to insure that God knew that I meant business about this whole church thing. So one Wednesday night I told my mom to tell our preacher (a young one named Joe Fields who had come in after Brother Smith had retired... or maybe died) that I wanted, needed to be baptized. We had begun an addition project on our church and our baptistry was out of order, so we had to move the whole shebang over to the McKinney Church of Christ about ten miles away.


The McKinney Church of Christ was where my friend Jared Holloway and his family went to church, even though the Holloways lived 50 yards from the McEntires who attended Jupiter Road, who’s son Darren was one of my best friends, and who hung out with Jared all the time. This is one of those things about the Church of Christ, the members love to disagree, and the splitting of congregations is a sort of a shared hobby.


The baptism went smooth. Though I was nervous about a grown man pushing me under water, I was more nervous about where I would spend eternity if I didn’t let him push me under water. After I came up I didn’t feel different. I was a little disappointed. I had hoped that the ceremony would ease my fears. In fact, I think that it somehow made them worse. Like I was missing something. Like God was trying to give me a gift and I was refusing to open it.


Darren came up to me with tears in his eyes. “Welcome,” he said. That’s it. Just “welcome.” He had been baptized earlier in the year, and was on fire for the Lord. Well, to be fair, his dad D.L. was an elder who kept a tight reign on him. That probably helped with his devotion.


All I knew was that Darren knew something I didn’t, and I wanted to know and I didn’t want to know all at the same time. I also knew that from that moment on, I was going to turn over a new leaf. The straight and narrow. That’s where you could find me.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

HOW WE GOT HERE VOLUME 1

BLOG 1. 10/28/09

HOW WE GOT HERE VOLUME 1



One of my earliest memories, after my family moved from Farmersville, Texas to Fairview, Texas, was early one Sunday morning stopping at the Friendship Baptist Church to get directions to the Jupiter Road Church of Christ. My mother was a devout Church of Christer from way back. Her father was a C.O.C. preacher before he decided he preferred drinking to that particular vocation. I guess my mother’s devotion made us all pretty devout Church of Christers in one way or another. Everyone but my father who preferred the Dallas Cowboys to a church pew. And so this is where our story begins.

Sitting in the back seat of our giant family car (probably a late 60’s Chevy, and probably not a car seat between us) perched on an uneven shoulder, careful not to actually pull into the parking lot so as not to give the Baptists false hope. Surprisingly, I now recall that my father was with us on this fateful morning, and was actually the one who went in for the directions. I was three-years-old and sat in the back seat between my sister, Randi (two years older than me) and my brother Todd (five years older than me). Dad came back to the car and started it up. We were off to the Jupiter Road Church of Christ.

Jupiter Road Church of Christ was actually in the next town over, Allen, Texas. Just five miles up the road, it seemed like you had to drive all the way across the widest part of Texas to get there. Back in those days, the main thoroughfare between Fairview and Allen was Stacy Road.

Stacy Road started off paved at one end (the end where Friendship Baptist Church was located) and wound through a small “neighborhood” before emptying onto a narrow white rock lane. A hand-full of farm houses dotted the horizons on either side of the road.

The biggest obstacle between sinner and salvation was a rickety old one lane wooden bridge. You may picture a painting of one of those charming old covered bridges surrounded by trees just ready to lose their leaves in celebration of Fall. You would be wrong.

Picture that bridge in the painting, then take the cover off. Pull most of the planks out of the driving surface. Make it narrower and shakier. Now lose the trees, grass and any other sign of beauty, then replace it with a medium sized creek, surrounded by only white rock as far as the eye could see. Then make it shakier again.

Even Dad couldn’t hide the concern on his face as we inched across the structure. Did he have the directions right? Could this be the way to the Jupiter Road Church of Christ? Narrow was the way that Sunday morning for sure.

Eventually, Stacy Road led to Highway 5 and a four-way stop. As we took a left out onto the two lane road. I noticed a white house with a large porch and a small silo out back. For some reason, I was instantly convinced that someone had died in that house. And furthermore, was quite sure that said someone had been brutally murdered. I’d like to say that years later I found out that was true, but I’m really not sure if I ever found out. The house is gone now, and we may never know. I do know that even though I was young, it seemed like a lot of bodies were being found in the area and the adults around me had no trouble discussing the details. Somehow, they always turned it into some sort of warning about living life right. Which brings us back to the Church of Christ.

A few miles, one left, and two rights later, we were in front of the Jupiter Road Church of Christ.